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Day 28 — What if you were pregnant or got someone pregnant, what would you do?

Die. Real talk I have never wanted my own children and have made sure to not find myself in such a predicament. I wrote about why I didn’t want children years ago on my blogger blog. My own personal choice which has been ingrained in me since I was a little girl; I always said I didn’t want to get married, have children and I wanted to be a lawyer. I have tried to keep my word. And because of a medical procedure I had back in 2008, if I were to get preggo, the lining of my uterus is too thin to hold a baby and I could possibly hemorrhage to death. No can do. Nor do I want to.

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4 thoughts on “Day 28 — What if you were pregnant or got someone pregnant, what would you do?

  1. I respect that a whole lot more than these chicks who spit kids out like crotch trophies. Just because you CAN get pregnant, doesn’t mean you SHOULD. I caught all kinds of flack when I first approached my doctor about getting my tubes tied and I argued my case for doing it; they still didn’t budge. I developed an ovarian cyst and when I consulted my then GYN about getting my tubes tied, he said he would and it was done. No regrets!

    • I asked about a hysterectomy and my gynecologist said um, no. His words, “No, come back here with another high blood pressure reading and that is what will be dealing with.” However, when I was 39 he did recommend the procedure I had done, but I think he figured after all these years I was serious about not wanting children.

      • What pissed and continues to piss me off is that women can have a baby with or without a mans consent and it’s okay; however, when a woman makes a conscious decision NOT to have children, it’s all kinds of drama. For me, I made a conscious decision to have one and then a conscious decision to no longer have them. I think that’s being responsible instead of just spitting out kids or terminating them

  2. I wish more people thought this way about a person’s decision to not have children. One of my cousins, who I love dearly, told me to have a child and give it to her. WTH? She was so serious and after I gave here the hard stare, I reminded her that I would never put myself or a child in the position she is thinking for her to have another child. And what part of I do not want to birth a child do you not understand? She got the picture.

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